Thinking of Marriage?
a friend recently got married, and she knew the guy for the last 6 months or so... hmm.. so 6 months is what she took to decide if she wanted to marry that guy? no marriage plans were already fixed...
i dont think this is a good idea.. even if u r going for an arranged marriage, u shud spend enough time with the other person till u decide to marry... so how much is enough time? no idea...
for me... yes, i want to know my girl before i marry her.. and frankly that is what i am doing now-a-days... trying to figure out who could be the best match for me :) i just hope i dont spend a lot of time with some1, and at the end find out that we dont get along...
any bright ideas what i should be looking for?
posted by Nitin Chaudhari @ 6/26/2005 10:45:00 AM
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3 Comments:
Hi, find someone whom you know more about then someday you won't be surprised that she is more or less than what you expect.
Life, it is full of misery why add to it. It is good to fall in love than to treat relationship like work always searching for what is ideal, for all you know there is no such thing. All women are like seeds they may look different but you maybe deceived, they need to be well planted, taken cared then you will succeed. In short, it is how you work in a relationship that makes it more meaningful.
"In love there is always acceptance and understanding, there will always be mistakes for without mistakes there is no understanding, so there can never be love"
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"find someone whom you know more about then someday you won't be surprised that she is more or less than what you expect."
-- yes i am doing that
"It is good to fall in love than to treat relationship like work always searching for what is ideal"
-- very true
"All women are like seeds they may look different..."
-- now this is crap
"Getting married" hmm! really a big problem. And in case of arranged marriage its too risky. But what i feel even if its love marriage risk is there.
Whatever kind of marriage u do always remenber that u have to do adjustments; no other way to have a successful married life :).
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